100 Ways To Love Her

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are. – St. Augustine

Here are 100 ways to love her.  Enjoy and feel free to make it 101….

  1. Massage her feet after a long day at work
  2. Kiss and tell her you love her every morning
  3. If apart for more than eight hours kiss her when you see her again
  4. Do things for her that you wouldn’t do for yourself
  5. Take her places you’ve both never been
  6. Hold her hand during walks
  7. Open her door to and from destinations
  8. Think of her before she thinks of herself
  9. Hold her face, look into her eyes when you tell her you love her
  10. Make her feel secure with your actions
  11. Teach her how to love you
  12. Reveal your strengths and weaknesses
  13. Learn an authentic way to make up after an argument
  14. Never go to bed angry
  15. Enjoy a midnight snack together
  16. Say what you mean and mean what you say
  17. Admit when you’re wrong and discuss actions to do better
  18. Honor your commitments to her
  19. Start traditions together
  20. Take a break from technology and enjoy each other’s company
  21. Discuss lifelong dreams
  22. Be slow to judge and quick to forgive
  23. Show her your patience
  24. Pick and choose your battles
  25. Learn another language together
  26. Go out of your way to make her smile
  27. Flirt with her let her know she’s beautiful
  28. Celebrate her successes
  29. Do something that she hates i.e. laundry
  30. Share a bowl of popcorn when watching a movie together
  31. If she is sick make her soup and pick up where she left off with tasks around the house.
  32. Treat her like a lady and hold her close during outings
  33. Run a candle lit bath with soft music in the background
  34. Protect her, make her feel safe
  35. Give her a courtesy call and let her know how late you will be
  36. Don’t bring home the stress of work
  37. Ask and keep learning the things that she loves most
  38. Listen to her heartbeat, Listen to her words
  39. Randomly hold her close, tell her you love her and that she is special
  40. Leave her a love note with $10, $20, $50, or $100 to buy something
  41. Respect her thoughts and love her body
  42. Exercise together
  43. Never compare her to another woman or another couple
  44. Small things that bother her make them a priority to remember
  45. Encourage her to be more than she wants for herself
  46. Be her cheerleader without the pom poms
  47. Read a book together and plan a date to discuss it over coffee or a glass of wine
  48. At a minimum learn 25 things that truly makes her smile
  49. While she’s at work take her a nice lunch; dress sharp and smell good
  50. Communicate to her how her loves motivates you
  51. Keep that fire burning with creativity
  52. Respond with love when mistakes are made
  53. Let her know your moments of happiness
  54. Hold her close on bad days;  Be comfortable with the silence of that moment
  55. Friends are important; make the relationship a priority
  56. Be authentic, be yourself
  57. Tell her you need her
  58. Solve problems together
  59. Speak up, let no one speak ill of her
  60. Show her the best of you and how you strive when you not at your best
  61. Learn how she desires to be supported during hard times
  62. Take on responsibility
  63. Make her feel sexy
  64. Keep a clean bedroom
  65. Explore her sexuality, try different things in the bedroom
  66. Take showers together
  67. Help wash her hair
  68. Be spontaneous: Undress her at the front door and give her a massage
  69. Dropping her off any place be sure to wait until she enters her apartment safely or wait until her car starts.
  70. Dining out, pull her chair out for her
  71. Be dependable
  72. Show her you love her during the good and bad times
  73. Create free time for you and her even when things are busy
  74. Be truthful
  75. Love her from where she stands; work current issues out together
  76. Model a strong set of core values
  77. Frequently give small thoughtful gifts
  78. Do what’s affordable, take her shopping at her favorite store
  79. Be the early riser on the weekends to make breakfast in bed
  80. Special occasions don’t forget them, set a reminder for a month in advance for planning purposes.  Do something original and thoughtful every time.  (anniversaries, birthdays, etc.)
  81. Surprise her with an exclusive picnic, make a list of her favorite things to eat and find those items from the best markets.
  82. Never fight over money
  83. Seek the good in everything she does
  84. Cook a special meal for her
  85. Give meaningful compliments on the regular
  86. Be optimistic during challenging times
  87. Speak your mind, use your words carefully
  88. Show interest in things she likes the most
  89. Love hard, but remain manly  
  90. Be honest with yourself and her
  91. Love her for who she is
  92. Give her hugs when she is cooking
  93. Surprise her with a mini vacation
  94. Plan a romantic date at home
  95. Do the dishes when she cooks
  96. Encourage her to hang out with her friends
  97. Praise her in public
  98. Take walks and enjoy each other’s company
  99. Demonstrate self-love 
  100. Do not settle for mediocre love give her the very best of you

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4 Discussions on
“100 Ways To Love Her”
  • I am so blessed to have a husband that does many of these things. As a couple we have learned that you cannot compare your relationship to others. Your way is different than our way. Do what works regardless of what others or society say.
    We also learned that love and life are not at all like movies or books. It does not work that way. Celebrate the ways you love each other instead of wishing for what you saw on the TV.
    And ladies, love and respect your man! Let him love you. Cherish him and serve him. Many things on this list can be done by both of you. <3

  • Thanks for your feedback Carol you bring up great points. For those who compare their relationship to others will forever chase their tail.

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