100 Ways To Love Her
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are. – St. Augustine
Here are 100 ways to love her. Enjoy and feel free to make it 101….
- Massage her feet after a long day at work
- Kiss and tell her you love her every morning
- If apart for more than eight hours kiss her when you see her again
- Do things for her that you wouldn’t do for yourself
- Take her places you’ve both never been
- Hold her hand during walks
- Open her door to and from destinations
- Think of her before she thinks of herself
- Hold her face, look into her eyes when you tell her you love her
- Make her feel secure with your actions
- Teach her how to love you
- Reveal your strengths and weaknesses
- Learn an authentic way to make up after an argument
- Never go to bed angry
- Enjoy a midnight snack together
- Say what you mean and mean what you say
- Admit when you’re wrong and discuss actions to do better
- Honor your commitments to her
- Start traditions together
- Take a break from technology and enjoy each other’s company
- Discuss lifelong dreams
- Be slow to judge and quick to forgive
- Show her your patience
- Pick and choose your battles
- Learn another language together
- Go out of your way to make her smile
- Flirt with her let her know she’s beautiful
- Celebrate her successes
- Do something that she hates i.e. laundry
- Share a bowl of popcorn when watching a movie together
- If she is sick make her soup and pick up where she left off with tasks around the house.
- Treat her like a lady and hold her close during outings
- Run a candle lit bath with soft music in the background
- Protect her, make her feel safe
- Give her a courtesy call and let her know how late you will be
- Don’t bring home the stress of work
- Ask and keep learning the things that she loves most
- Listen to her heartbeat, Listen to her words
- Randomly hold her close, tell her you love her and that she is special
- Leave her a love note with $10, $20, $50, or $100 to buy something
- Respect her thoughts and love her body
- Exercise together
- Never compare her to another woman or another couple
- Small things that bother her make them a priority to remember
- Encourage her to be more than she wants for herself
- Be her cheerleader without the pom poms
- Read a book together and plan a date to discuss it over coffee or a glass of wine
- At a minimum learn 25 things that truly makes her smile
- While she’s at work take her a nice lunch; dress sharp and smell good
- Communicate to her how her loves motivates you
- Keep that fire burning with creativity
- Respond with love when mistakes are made
- Let her know your moments of happiness
- Hold her close on bad days; Be comfortable with the silence of that moment
- Friends are important; make the relationship a priority
- Be authentic, be yourself
- Tell her you need her
- Solve problems together
- Speak up, let no one speak ill of her
- Show her the best of you and how you strive when you not at your best
- Learn how she desires to be supported during hard times
- Take on responsibility
- Make her feel sexy
- Keep a clean bedroom
- Explore her sexuality, try different things in the bedroom
- Take showers together
- Help wash her hair
- Be spontaneous: Undress her at the front door and give her a massage
- Dropping her off any place be sure to wait until she enters her apartment safely or wait until her car starts.
- Dining out, pull her chair out for her
- Be dependable
- Show her you love her during the good and bad times
- Create free time for you and her even when things are busy
- Be truthful
- Love her from where she stands; work current issues out together
- Model a strong set of core values
- Frequently give small thoughtful gifts
- Do what’s affordable, take her shopping at her favorite store
- Be the early riser on the weekends to make breakfast in bed
- Special occasions don’t forget them, set a reminder for a month in advance for planning purposes. Do something original and thoughtful every time. (anniversaries, birthdays, etc.)
- Surprise her with an exclusive picnic, make a list of her favorite things to eat and find those items from the best markets.
- Never fight over money
- Seek the good in everything she does
- Cook a special meal for her
- Give meaningful compliments on the regular
- Be optimistic during challenging times
- Speak your mind, use your words carefully
- Show interest in things she likes the most
- Love hard, but remain manly
- Be honest with yourself and her
- Love her for who she is
- Give her hugs when she is cooking
- Surprise her with a mini vacation
- Plan a romantic date at home
- Do the dishes when she cooks
- Encourage her to hang out with her friends
- Praise her in public
- Take walks and enjoy each other’s company
- Demonstrate self-love
- Do not settle for mediocre love give her the very best of you
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I am so blessed to have a husband that does many of these things. As a couple we have learned that you cannot compare your relationship to others. Your way is different than our way. Do what works regardless of what others or society say.
We also learned that love and life are not at all like movies or books. It does not work that way. Celebrate the ways you love each other instead of wishing for what you saw on the TV.
And ladies, love and respect your man! Let him love you. Cherish him and serve him. Many things on this list can be done by both of you. <3
Thanks for your feedback Carol you bring up great points. For those who compare their relationship to others will forever chase their tail.
#67 is very sexy…help wash her hair. Dreamy list!
Very good list! If this happened in more relationships we would have fewer broken homes and fewer messed up people. You really are doing a service here!