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  • 50 Rules to Live Your Life by

    50 Rules to Live Your Life by

    Without ambition one starts nothing. Without work one finishes nothing. The prize will not be sent to you. You have to win it. – R. Emerson 1. Focus on what really counts 2. You can’t please everyone 3. Choose friends wisely 4. Tell people what you’re really thinking.  People are not mind readers. 5. Understand [...]

  • Gary Vaynerchuk: Effort is grossly underrated

    Gary Vaynerchuk: Effort is grossly underrated

    Remember the guy in the ’80s walking around with a boombox on his shoulder? Why’d he do that? Because it told a story about who he was. Expressing yourself is big business. – Gary Vaynerchuk It’s never the platform, it’s always the message. – Gary Vaynerchuk What was his unique style or personality that set [...]

  • The Short Guide To Powerful Eye Contact

    The Short Guide To Powerful Eye Contact

    The most important things in those first few seconds are, basically, a firm handshake and a smile, good eye contact and really paying attention.  – Pat Schaumann Establishes a connection and builds relationships. Tells a person you’re interested in what they are saying. Sends the message of being self assured and confident. Pay someone a compliment [...]

  • Babe Ruth: Watch My Dust

    Babe Ruth: Watch My Dust

    The way a team plays as a whole determines its success. You may have the greatest bunch of individual stars in the world, but if they don’t play together, the club won’t be worth a dime. – Babe Ruth It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up – Babe Ruth What was his [...]

  • 31 Life Lessons for our Teenage Daughters

    31 Life Lessons for our Teenage Daughters

    Certain is it that there is no kind of affection so purely angelic as of a father to a daughter. In love to our wives there is desire; to our sons, ambition; but to our daughters there is something which there are no words to express. – Joseph Addison 1. Listen to the sound of your own [...]

  • 50 Traits and Habits Of Highly Effective Men

    50 Traits and Habits Of Highly Effective Men

    “It is every man’s obligation to put back into the world at least the equivalent of what he takes out of it.  – Albert Einstein” “Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs [...]

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Clever & Manly

50 Rules to Live Your Life by
[ 1 ] December 21, 2011

50 Rules to Live Your Life by

Without ambition one starts nothing. Without work one finishes nothing. The prize will not be sent to you. You have to win it. – R. Emerson 1. Focus on what really counts 2. You can’t please everyone 3. Choose friends wisely 4. Tell people what you’re really thinking.  People are not mind readers. 5. Understand [...]

7 Manly Lessons From Gran Torino
[ 2 ] November 28, 2011

7 Manly Lessons From Gran Torino

You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself – Galileo Galilei Any man who reaches out to help another man discover his self-worth and respect will always be a hero.  Actor Walt Kowalski from the movie Gran Torino attempts to help Thao discover manhood. “Walt Kowalski is a widower who holds [...]

The Short Guide To Powerful Eye Contact
[ 1 ] November 21, 2011

The Short Guide To Powerful Eye Contact

The most important things in those first few seconds are, basically, a firm handshake and a smile, good eye contact and really paying attention.  – Pat Schaumann Establishes a connection and builds relationships. Tells a person you’re interested in what they are saying. Sends the message of being self assured and confident. Pay someone a compliment [...]

Family & Relationships

The Importance of Father Involvement in Schools
[ 1 ] September 23, 2011

The Importance of Father Involvement in Schools

Fact: Father involvement in schools is associated with the higher likelihood of a student getting mostly A’s. This was true for fathers in biological parent families, for stepfathers, and for fathers heading single-parent families. learn more…

My Father Lived Above my Expectations
[ 2 ] April 7, 2011

My Father Lived Above my Expectations

My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard.  Mother would come out and say, “You’re tearing up the grass.”  “We’re not raising grass,” Dad would reply.  “We’re raising boys.”  ~ Harmon Killebrew First off, thank you for compiling such an extensive collection of information on being a modern gentleman and [...]

31 Life Lessons for our Teenage Daughters
[ 8 ] March 15, 2011

31 Life Lessons for our Teenage Daughters

Certain is it that there is no kind of affection so purely angelic as of a father to a daughter. In love to our wives there is desire; to our sons, ambition; but to our daughters there is something which there are no words to express. – Joseph Addison 1. Listen to the sound of your own [...]

All Swagga

Samuel L. Jackson: I don’t understand how people live without creating?
[ 0 ] May 19, 2012

Samuel L. Jackson: I don’t understand how people live without creating?

I guess the worst day I have had was when I had to stand up in rehab in front of my wife and daughter and say ‘Hi, my name is Sam and I am an addict. – Samuel L. Jackson

Russell Simmons: There are no failures, only quitters
[ 0 ] January 23, 2012

Russell Simmons: There are no failures, only quitters

I knew it was unrealistic to think I could build an institution overnight. But if I took baby steps, eventually it would happen. – Russell Simmons I’ve been blessed to find people who are smarter than I am, and they help me to execute the vision I have. – Russell Simmons What was his unique [...]

Gary Vaynerchuk: Effort is grossly underrated
[ 1 ] November 23, 2011

Gary Vaynerchuk: Effort is grossly underrated

Remember the guy in the ’80s walking around with a boombox on his shoulder? Why’d he do that? Because it told a story about who he was. Expressing yourself is big business. – Gary Vaynerchuk It’s never the platform, it’s always the message. – Gary Vaynerchuk What was his unique style or personality that set [...]

Manifesto

On the Street… Be Humble
[ 0 ] September 24, 2011

On the Street… Be Humble

“Be Humble but never lose your dignity.  This is the greatest lesson a man can ever learn.”

On the Street… Put Away Childish Thinking
[ 0 ] March 22, 2011

On the Street… Put Away Childish Thinking

Put away childish thinking and do things that a man would do.  I’m finish lying to my wife she tends to get really mad when I do. 

On the Street… Be Yourself
[ 1 ] March 6, 2011

On the Street… Be Yourself

“Be Yourself, no one can ever take that from you.”

Interviews

Stephan Labossiere: More women are taking the lead
[ 0 ] February 15, 2012

Stephan Labossiere: More women are taking the lead

Question #1 Alvin: Who are you, what do you do, and what do you enjoy most about it? Stephan: My name is Stephan Labossiere and I am a relationship expert & coach. I conduct workshops, one on one coaching, as well as speaking engagements aimed to help others become better people and improve their relationships. [...]

Marlon Cole: My Father is a true Inspiration
[ 2 ] February 3, 2012

Marlon Cole: My Father is a true Inspiration

Question #1 Alvin: Who are you, what do you do, and what do you enjoy most about it? Marlon: A Brooklyn cat, that goes by the name of Marlon Cole. I am the founder of forFATHERSproject.org and Editor-in-Chief of publication, 4FATHERS photo journal. Both this project and journal allows me to share my experiences as [...]

Ken Solin: Authenticity is under-rated
[ 0 ] December 13, 2011

Ken Solin: Authenticity is under-rated

Question #1 Alvin: Who are you, what do you do, and what do you enjoy most about it? Ken: I’m a 66 year old retired finance entrepreneur who raised his son from infancy as a single dad. I have very strong feelings about fathers and fatherhood and offer new fathers articles to help them navigate [...]

Other Recent Articles

Step to Manhood #104

Step to Manhood #104

[ 0 ] May 13, 2012

Step to manhood… To help someone explore their step feel free to share your thoughts, quotes, or anecdote in the comment section below.

The simple act of washing your hands

The simple act of washing your hands

[ 0 ] April 5, 2012

Fact: The simple act of washing hands with soap and water after going to the toilet can reduce diarrhoeal diseases by over 40% learn more….

Step to Manhood #103

Step to Manhood #103

[ 0 ] March 9, 2012

If you have the energy to complain then you have the energy to act. One step closer to manhood.  Help someone explore their next step feel free to share your thoughts, quotes, or anecdote in the comment section below.

Step to Manhood #102

Step to Manhood #102

[ 0 ] March 6, 2012

Devote yourself to an idea… GO make it happen! One step closer to manhood.  Help someone explore their next step feel free to share your thoughts, quotes, or anecdote in the comment section below.  

Step to Manhood #101

Step to Manhood #101

[ 0 ] January 2, 2012

Stop and enjoy the small stuff so you can appreciate the BIG stuff. One step closer to manhood.  Help someone explore their next step feel free to share your thoughts, quotes, or anecdote in the comment section below.

George Lopez: I don’t Battle Myself

George Lopez: I don’t Battle Myself

[ 0 ] November 22, 2011

I didn’t come from a background where I saw a lot of loving couples. All my aunts and uncles were either split up or fighting all the time. The only healthy relationships I saw were on TV. – George Lopez I had a very difficult childhood. I was surrounded by people who had both parents, [...]